January 31, 2004

...do I have a whisking disorder?


Posted by Bakerina at 07:39 PM in incoherent ravings about food • (1) Comments • (0) Trackbacks
January 30, 2004

Dear friends,

Those funny stories about food will resume soon, I promise.  For now, though, I bring you the continuing saga of Your Bakerina’s Adventures with the Egg Board Fellowship and the increasingly-appropriately-pseudonymed LuthorCorp…

So, did you give up your fellowship? I am glad to say that I did not. From June 15 to July 14, this bakerina will be calling Eureka Springs, Arkansas home.

No kidding?  LuthorCorp is letting you go? Uhhhh...kinda.

I don’t like the sound of that “kinda.” Me, neither.

You didn’t quit your job, did you? Uhhhh...not as such.

For the love of Christ, Jen. Okay, okay. I apologize.

Boss’s boss, true to his word, met with me as soon as he got into work this morning.  I pleaded my case, telling him that if I’d ever thought I would actually win this thing, I never would have applied.  I told him that my co-workers rose around me and vowed to help take on my workload while I was gone.  (I felt like Kirk Douglas in Spartacus.) I reminded him of how often I’ve stayed late, come in early, helped in generally helpless situations.  I wailed and boogied until the tale had been told and the song had been sung.

He countered with what I thought he would counter with all along:  as my long-time co-worker, boss and friend, he thinks that this is an opportunity too good to pass up.  But as a sales vp at a public company, one that takes its shareholder returns very seriously, he has been presented with this request at a terrible time.  We have a whole new executive management team, and they are watching us very carefully, asking loaded questions about why we’re not making any money and is he sure that he can’t make any cuts to his staff?  He pointed out that I have given him a tricky argument to give to HR:  If he tells HR that I have recruited people who will pick up my workload, they will ask why I’m on the payroll.  If he says I’m on the payroll because I’m indispensible to the team, they will ask why I’m being allowed to go if I’m so indispensible.  But he has promised to advocate for me.  I believe him and I trust him.

So in the end, we are one step forward, two steps back.  I am going to keep the fellowship.  I do not know if I will have a job when I get back.  Hopefully the meeting between boss’s boss and HR will take place within the week, and I will know if I’m staying or going.  It is a scary thought, but the worst-case scenario is scarier:  While there are no immediate, announced plans for layoffs in our group, they have not been ruled out, either, which means that I could turn this fellowship down, only to find myself unemployed anyway.  That’s a risk I will not take.

Lloyd, incidentally, is standing by his woman, giving her two arms to cling to. 

In the meantime, I remind myself that the greatest rewards come from the greatest risks, and I remember Cynthia Heimel’s line that God protects babies, drunks, fools and reckless girls, girls who are up for anything.  Since I am all of the above, my odds are good.

Posted by Bakerina at 11:00 PM in anger is an energy • (1) Comments • (0) Trackbacks
January 28, 2004

Due to my five-year anniversary with LuthorCorp this March, and due to a little nifty in our benefits package that allows us to buy or sell a week’s vacation, I have four weeks of vacation this year.  This dovetails nicely with my shiny new Egg Board fellowship at WCDH, which is tentatively scheduled for June 15.

I had expected to hear plenty of grumbling from LuthorCorp about taking all this time off at once.  I expected a discussion of who is going to cover for me while I’m out, and why we can’t afford a temp.  I expected to get a stern lecture about what a burden I was placing on everybody, and how we are not Funky Little Company anymore; we are a big public Fortune 500 company and the rules are different now.  What I did not expect to hear was no.

No, we can’t spare you.  No, you can’t take all of your earned vacation at once.  No.  No.  No.

Fortunately, I have three things working in my favor.  One is that I had the presence of mind to push back, even though it meant exchanging the only harsh words I’ve ever exchanged with my boss.  Another is that my sweet and wondrous co-workers within earshot have vowed to help me in any way they can.  The third is that we had this conversation just minutes after I had done a really big favor for another salesman and his multimillion-dollar customer.

I am supposed to meet with my boss’s boss today, who has the final say, and who is both a good guy and an old friend (he recruited me into this company and before I came to work for him he wrote me a reference letter for a scholarship when I was in culinary school).  It is for this reason only that I am merely rattled, and not depressed.  But since we have 8 inches of brand-new snow on the ground—9 if you count what we’re supposed to get this morning—whether he even makes it into the office today is anybody’s guess.

To quote my friend Johnette, I’m gonna have a drink and walk around, I’ve got a lot to think about, oh yeah.

Posted by Bakerina at 10:10 AM in anger is an energy • (1) Comments • (0) Trackbacks
January 26, 2004

Begging your indulgence, dear friends...the vague malaise that was prodding at me a couple of weeks ago seems to be returning with a vengeance. I spent most of the weekend trying to determine whether the sore throat I’d picked up was an incipient head cold, another mysterious industrial pollutant in the neighborhood or a sign from the Fates that it’s time to freakin’ dust, already. I decided to sweat it out on the treadmill at lunch and was rewarded with a wave of exhaustion and what feels like a low-grade fever. Well, at least it will keep me warm when the blizzard rolls in. smile

Belated thanks and applause to nakedjen, Snowball and Kenneth, who answered my Five Questions so sweetly and thoughtfully. (Kenneth’s description of Reading Terminal Market is worth the price of whatever you’re paying for your ISP. For those of you who have never been to Philadelphia, trust us: Reading Terminal Market is the most wonderful place in the world, and he nailed it in four paragraphs.) Additional thanks and a round of lemon-drop shots to Alicia and goliard, who did not let me twist in the wind, but posted their own zingy replies to orionoir’s Five Questions. No thanks to orionoir for putting us through that. Dude, one of these days your luck is going to run out.  wink

When I was on my sabbatical the week before last, feeling lonely, fractious and bumpy, the fabulous, sexy and not-at-all-evil Walt rode to my rescue by mailing me a pair of books that he knew would cheer me up. Indeed they did. (Walt is a genius at knowing when I’m down and in need of old Hollywood gossip and trivia: last summer he mailed me a copy of Louella Parsons’ Tell it to Louella, which I received on August 14, the day of the blackout.)

One of them is Otto Friedrich’s City of Nets: A Portrait of Hollywood in the 1940’s. I haven’t started it yet because I picked up the other one first, but Walt says that there are good stories abounding in it, including some about Charles Laughton massaging his own genitals with stage fright. Friends, I don’t ask more from my Hollywood trivia than that. The other one, the one I am deep into now, is Alexander King’s May This House Be Safe From Tigers. I don’t know how I got this far in life without hearing of Alexander King (although the fact that both of his books are out of print; Tigers was published in 1961), but now that I’ve got him, I’m never letting him go. I asked Walt if Alexander King was famous for anything besides being a “poet, painter, cartoonist, raconteur and frequent guest on the Jack Paar show.” He has graciously given me permission to quote from his letter:

Alexander King is one of the stars of an unwritten book about the celebrities who rotated in and out of the Addiction Research Center of the US Public Health Service Hospital in Lexington, Kentucky. They specialized in morphine and heroin and would take anybody, but there was a regular bus from NYC. If I remember right, Chet Baker for sure, Sonny Rollins, God knows who else, were his classmates. Wm Burroughs [Jr] wrote ‘Kentucky Ham’ about it. They used to dole out free drugs in exchange for permission to experiment on ‘em. To top that, they were experimented on by Dr. Harris Isbell, who was on the CIA payroll, and gave some of these poor guys LSD for 75 consecutive days.

He includes this informative, scary link.

But back to King. There are great, great stories in here, including a chapter on his trip down to Lexington, a polemic on the corrosive effect of advertising on the content of television shows, and some truly funny and inspired cartoons/slice of life vignettes. (A caveat:  one thing that is less than great in here is King’s condescending and dismissive attitude toward gay people.  It is not atypical of the prevailing mores of the day; in fact, it is probably much more tolerant than most of the prevailing mores of the day, but I’m still sorry to see it.  I would like to think that if King had been born 30 years later, his attitude would have been different—but then again, if he had been born 30 years later, he would not be nearly the character that he was, shaped as he was by his time and place.)

There is not a single page that is not full of sublime, silly, profane, obscene, outraged, giddy language, and I’m afraid that given half the chance, I would quote the whole book right here. So instead I will try my damndest to not do so, and to leave you with this excerpt, which functions as an introduction to a tale of Alexander King watching a pair of seasoned, work-proud garbagemen and the sugarfoot trainee assigned to work with them:

These days I no longer keep any animals around the house, but once, quite a while ago, I was for some reason or another pretty deeply involved in raising hundreds and hundreds of tropical fish, andImust say I derived a great deal offun and even satisfaction out of this expensive pastime.

But I finally had to give it all up, because early one morning, while I was watching the stupendous accouchement of an overgravid fundulus gularis, a shattering flash of illumination came upon me. To tell you the truth, the effects of that bitter moment of enlightenment have never completely faded from my mind Even now I sometimes still find myself under the unhappy spell of it, although it all happened more than thirty years ago…

You must understand that it’s not that I’m afraid of being tempted back into my costly hobby again. No, no! Not a bit of it. Quite the contrary. It’s only that I can no longer bear to look at all those dopey fish opening and closing their goddamned mouths a million times a day. It just gets me down. It gets me down because I know that those poor bastards aren’t simply breathing or gasping for air. I know for a fact that they’re all really screaming - screaming - like crazy. Yes, screaming and giving off heartbreaking, soul-shattering submarine howls. And, do you know what it is that they’re all shouting?

They’re shouting, ”Look at Me! Please Look at Me! I’m so Original! I’m so Darling! I’m so Cute! Just Look at Me! and see how Unique I am! Look at me and Love me! Love me! Love me! Why don’t you Love me? Please! Please! Love me!  Love me! Love me!”

That’s what these poor suckers are all saying. It’s awful!

And what makes it so terrible for me is that I know only too goddamned well that that’s exactly what everybody else is constantly saying too. I just don’t care to have a swampful of pop-eyed, screaming fish go on reminding me of it all the time.

Yes, I guess the pride in one’s own uniqueness is what keeps everybody going in this erratically operated sausage machine. I suppose that’s why a lot of people go off their rockers nowadays, because pride in one’s work, for instance, is certainly disappearing out of our world. It’s impossible to be proud of the crappy things that most people have to do to earn their living - and believe me, I don’t mean that any sort of real labor is ever debasing in itself. Just look at all our millionaires happily pfooshing around in their hobby shops, getting sawdust on their eyelashes and covering themselves with all sorts of decorative calluses which they can proudly show off at their clubs later on.

But what can be utterly debasing to the human spirit is if you have to earn your keep by performing some monotonous, mechanical gesture of such minute insignificance that even the smallest sense of achievement is totally absent from your endeavors.

Remember in my time I have known whimsical hod carriers, dignified sewer inspectors and even poetic chimney sweeps. Hey! I knew chimney sweeps...

Posted by Bakerina at 09:20 PM in valentines • (1) Comments
January 25, 2004

The worst thing about being the American Egg Board Fellow at the Writers Colony at Dairy Hollow is discovering that LuthorCorp might have issues with said Fellow taking all of her vacation at once to go honor the terms of her fellowship.  Stay tuned for what might prove to be a very interesting story.  (Or what might be much ado about nothing.)

The best thing about being the American Egg Board Fellow at the WCDH is that now I can walk up behind Lloyd as he makes the coffee, slip my hands into his pockets and growl into his ear, “Hey, baby, ever done it with a Fellow?”

Posted by Bakerina at 09:10 PM in stuff and nonsense • (2) Comments • (0) Trackbacks
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